Dialogue 04

How the Church Sexualizes the Sacraments

An English scholar wrote, puzzled by the statements of Cardinal Francis Stafford on the Eucharistic meaning of priesthood and the necessity for a priest to be celibate. She wrote:

Please help!  I have read Stafford’s paper (one delivered at the 1993 Vatican International Conference on Celibacy) and I don't fully understand his theses. He repeats it many times and yet it remains mysterious.

(The Agenzia Della Congregatione Per L’Evangelizzazione Dei Populi has re-issued a large part of the some and substance of papers from that conference in a Dossier dated 11 March 2006 under the title: La

Chiesa Cattolica E L’Importanza Del Celibato. Stafford’s paper is absent.)

QUESTIONS: I would like to understand in plain English what this man is trying to say. This is what I understand him to be saying:

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Priesthood is a sacrament. Marriage is a sacrament. A priest’s body is involved totally in his ordination. Priesthood is like a marriage, particularly in his celebration of the Eucharist, which is an act of marital commitment and union of the priest. Stafford’s conclusion: having married priests celebrate Mass would be adulterous.

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The marriage of the priest to the Church and Christ is consummated in his Eucharistic Sacrifice. He acts in persona Christi.  The union of Christ with his people is Nuptial. The priest is bound to Christ and the Church beyond words and symbols where the priest’s sexuality becomes Christ, body and blood, joined to the Church

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The Eucharistic Sacrifice reenacts the death on the cross. The priest pays again in his life sacrifice (singleness) and at Mass (Eucharist) the debt of the crucifixion memorialized in the Last Supper. Since the Eucharist is nuptial the priest is married to the people as Christ is to his church. 

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He says " in the identification with Christ that is explicit and effective in the words of consecration "This is my body, this is my blood" suggest the High Priest (and all priests) have now become Christ and are offering their own bodies! 

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The priest 'the second Adam' forms a union (nuptial) with the second Eve—the Church. This bond is a sexual and nuptial union and is the fundamental and exclusive marriage in theological symbol.

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The priest’s bride is the Church therefore he is already married. He says: “The liturgical and nuptial context is covenantal: it is the office of the husband acting in his proper person in matrimony, and of the priest acting in Person of the second Adam in the Eucharist.”

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The priest must be "pure" (No sex). Because of the priest’s person acting in replacement of Adam and in the person of Christ he must be sexually pure and unattached by any human sexual bond. St. Jerome calls “incontinent priests adulterers.”

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Stafford’s claim is: “The priest in celebrating the Eucharist is the Head of the Church like the Father-God.” He becomes the second Adam “The Word made Flesh'” transformed into a "living Spirit" mediated to the priest by participation in the Eucharist.

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Only a man can be a priest or celebrate the Eucharist because “The priest is the head of the nuptial body.” His gender as well as his sexuality are necessary for his sacramental service: "It is because of the priest's own personal nuptial integration into the Sacrifice he offers, that only a man is capable of acting in the person of the head, and can be a priest.” 

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Stafford claims: “The priest’s nuptial meaning, i.e. his sacramental masculinity, exercised in persona Christi, has its plenary historical expression in the offering of the One Sacrifice, in the institution of the New Covenant.”

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Is he really saying what I understand? The 'sacrifice on the cross' and ‘the last supper' become 'spiritual sex’ between Adam & Eve?

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Like all the clerical scholars trying to defend the universality of the apostolic celibate heritage Stafford appeals to the early fathers of the church: " The Fathers required further that the sacramental marriage of the man ordained into the Catholic priesthood be transcended, that his flesh be spiritualized...”

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His final claim is that married priests would be “liturgically indecent.”

RESPONSES: The main and startling distortion in Stafford’s thinking is the confluence of sex and the Eucharist. The Eucharist is certainly a love feast, but not a sexual event. There is a long Pagan tradition of mixing the spiritual and sexual. Christianity rejected that tendency and the temple prostitutes. (By the way there remains in certain New Age movements a tendency still to co-mingle ecstasies.)

The Eucharist is a family love feast that is both familial and unbounded by time and space. It is a Mass of the Universe as Tailard wrote of so brilliantly, and a realization of the gospel message, ““Wherever 2 or 3 are gathered” there is the essence of the Presence.

The priest does have a special role at the Eucharist—to make the presence of the saving sacrifice of Jesus reincarnate in a certain way, available to all, because it can be participated in and memorialized as in the Last Supper.

The role of the priest is unique, but he is not special beyond any other Christian. The idea that ordination confers on him an “ontological” change—he exists in a different and higher realm of existence—is sheer philosophical poppy cock. And I think heresy if one adheres to the authentic Pauline example and teaching. Tradition and authoritarianism in the church has exalted and aggrandized the priest beyond reality. He is not “higher than the angels” (Trent) nor is he the exclusive “Steward of God’s Mysteries,” as some theologians hold.

He has a role in the Christian community. That is as servant. Those who give themselves without reserve in that service fulfill their duties well and live up to their public promise. That takes a deep spiritual awareness of their Christian service.

Priest-servant also means that the priest must still grapple honestly with his god-given nature—sex and all, and in every aspect of its basic biological, psychological, moral, and spiritual dimensions. There are no shortcuts.

What Stafford and his ilk of theologians try to do is solve their sexual identity in their proclaimed allegiance with Christ and dependence on the authoritarian power and control of an institutionalized social development.

Catholic practice is closer to folk religions and magic than clergy care to admit. It is nonetheless. This does not diminish the beauty, the artistic and monumental achievements and genuinely comforting pageantry so prominent in history and daily life—and the spiritual inspiration, strength, and grace that flow from sacramental practice.

The figment is that that “celibate transformation” will take place if priests deny themselves all sexual activity. As if that metamorphosis would make a man “one with Christ” and catapult him into the mythopoetic role of the “bridegroom” of the Church—the bride of Christ—and transmogrifying religious symbol and metaphor into a reality. And the grand irony of it is that in the process these theologians sexualize the spiritual and set up a dualistic identity: ritually kissing the altar is “kissing” Christ; celebrating Mass is the “marriage union” with Christ. (To review a clear explanation of the homosexual component in clergy identity Cf. Jamie Glazov in Dialogue #6). 

Many bishops and priests who celebrate Mass do have sexual lives, many on an ongoing basis. I am not talking about failings or sins, but hypocrisy of the most devious kind—whitened sepulchers.

The church’s teaching on sex and celibacy is wrong and off base. It is postulated on a theological figment (that sex is fundamentally sin related—only legitimized within a church approved union), perpetuating scientific ignorance and error, and psychological distortion of the crassest kind. It simply does not correspond to reality any more than the Biblical protestations that the earth is the center of the universe with the sun and the stars revolving around it. Stafford’s ideas are but a mystification of a simple, enduring reality—Christ is with us, in reality and sacramentally.

For further discussion Cf:

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“Celibacy and Imagery:  'Horror Story' in the Making," The National Catholic Reporter, July 2, 1993

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“The Celibacy Question," The Tablet ( London ), June 5, 1993 , (p. 737-738)

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"A House Built on Sand," Viewpoint, The Tablet ( London ) September 12, 1992 , (p. 1118)

Posted: 2007-01-02

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